#Figging Gabrielle

I don't really know why the idea of figging is such a turn on. It's probably one of the most taboo things for me at this moment in time.If I think about what I write and how explicitly I write it, I'll admit, I blush a bit. Even as I write this post, I'm a little embarrassed. It's funny, if it's...

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Rituals

I love 8:31 am. That's just a minute after the school bell has rung calling all the lovelies inside and I can head back home - to peace. I love that moment of absolute silence, complete stillness, when I'm alone again. After a few moments, I pour a cup of tea, sometimes I listen to Krishna Das and, if I'm not feeling terribly lazy, practice a little yoga. I light a candle then I just sit. It's lovely.Silence...

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BDSM is a hot topic these days, but for couples or sexual partners who are just opening their minds to the concept, that doesn't make it any less strange, or even intimidating. The sad fact is, most of us are conditioned to look at BDSM, or even light erotic discipline (such as spanking or playful bondage) as something kinky or even improper. Fortunately, this is starting to change. Sex is increasingly...

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BDSM is a hot topic these days, but for couples or sexual partners who are just opening their minds to the concept, that doesn't make it any less strange, or even intimidating. The sad fact is, most of us are conditioned to look at BDSM, or even light erotic discipline (such as spanking or playful bondage) as something kinky or even improper. Fortunately, this is starting to change. Sex is increasingly...

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BDSM vs. Spanking/DD

I was chatting with my friend Katherine Deane last night over a discussion that was going on on Facebook. It was the conversation over BDSM vs. Spanking/DD. I didn't actually comment on the post itself but read the back and forth and 'liked' the comments I liked or agreed with or thought were clear. I actually began to write my response to it but then deleted it mostly because I hate to...

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